Frequently Asked Questions
Find answers to common questions about setting up, using, and troubleshooting your Chastity Lockbox.Pricing and Subscription
Do I need a subscription to use the Lockbox?
Do I need a subscription to use the Lockbox?
Does my keyholder need to pay for a subscription?
Does my keyholder need to pay for a subscription?
Can I explore the dashboard before purchasing a Lockbox?
Can I explore the dashboard before purchasing a Lockbox?
Can I get a PDF invoice for my Lockbox order?
Can I get a PDF invoice for my Lockbox order?
Ordering and service continuity
I'm in the EU—what will shipping and import cost?
I'm in the EU—what will shipping and import cost?
What happens if Research And Desire stops operating? Can I run the Lockbox locally?
What happens if Research And Desire stops operating? Can I run the Lockbox locally?
Battery and Power
How long does the battery last?
How long does the battery last?
- Idle mode (30 seconds) — Screen dims to save power
- Pseudo-sleep (2 minutes) — Screen turns off, WiFi stays connected
- Deep sleep (10 minutes) — WiFi disconnects, minimal power use (~0.5-2mA)
Sleep Mode Details
Should I keep the Lockbox plugged in?
Should I keep the Lockbox plugged in?
- Your keyholder can always send commands
- The device stays connected to WiFi
- You don’t need to worry about battery life during extended sessions
Setup and Connectivity
I bought a secondhand Lockbox. How do I pair it to my account?
I bought a secondhand Lockbox. How do I pair it to my account?
- Contact support at support@researchanddesire.com
- Include proof of purchase (order confirmation, receipt, or shipping details)
- Provide the MAC address or pairing code from your device (in Settings → Pairing on the Lockbox; support may ask for this as a device ID or pairing ID)
Can I unpair my Lockbox from all accounts?
Can I unpair my Lockbox from all accounts?
How do I connect my Lockbox to WiFi?
How do I connect my Lockbox to WiFi?
- Navigate to Settings > WiFi Settings on your device menu
- Scan the QR code displayed on the Lockbox screen with your mobile phone
- Select your 2.4 GHz network and enter the password
WiFi Setup Guide
How do I pair my Lockbox to the dashboard?
How do I pair my Lockbox to the dashboard?
Pairing Guide
Is there an API or WebSocket to control my Lockbox on my local network?
Is there an API or WebSocket to control my Lockbox on my local network?
I can't find the Chaster extension or Chaster isn't syncing with my Lockbox
I can't find the Chaster extension or Chaster isn't syncing with my Lockbox
If I freeze the lock on Chaster, does the Lockbox timer stay in sync?
If I freeze the lock on Chaster, does the Lockbox timer stay in sync?
Users and Roles
What is a Keyholder?
What is a Keyholder?
What is a lockee?
What is a lockee?
What is a self-lock?
What is a self-lock?
What's the difference between Keyholding and self-locking?
What's the difference between Keyholding and self-locking?
| Feature | Keyholding | Self-locking |
|---|---|---|
| Users involved | Two (Keyholder + lockee) | One |
| Edit active lock | Keyholder can edit | Cannot edit |
| Abandon lock | Keyholder can abandon | Cannot abandon |
| Remote unlock | Yes | No |
Can I add a keyholder after starting a self-lock?
Can I add a keyholder after starting a self-lock?
How can I assign a Keyholder to my account?
How can I assign a Keyholder to my account?
- Go to Settings > Partners in the dashboard
- Invite another dashboard user to control your devices
- They can also request control of your devices
Connecting with Partners
Lock Sessions
How do I start or unlock a lock session?
How do I start or unlock a lock session?
- Start Lock Session: Click when no session is active
- Viewing your own lockbox creates a self-lock
- As a keyholder viewing your partner’s lockbox, you become their keyholder
- Unlock: Available during active sessions for keyholders and test locks
How can I abandon a lock session?
How can I abandon a lock session?
- Go to Chastity Lockbox > Home in the dashboard
- Select the Edit Lock option on the far right
- Click Abandon Lock
My keyholder is unresponsive. How do I end my lock?
My keyholder is unresponsive. How do I end my lock?
I removed my keyholder during an active session and now my lock is stuck. What do I do?
I removed my keyholder during an active session and now my lock is stuck. What do I do?
I'm no longer with my partner—how do I unlock my Lockbox and remove their access?
I'm no longer with my partner—how do I unlock my Lockbox and remove their access?
- Remove their access — Go to Settings → Partners, open Manage on the connection, and choose Remove partner. See Managing Partner Connections.
- End an active lock — Only a keyholder can abandon a lock from the dashboard in most cases. If your keyholder will not help, see My keyholder is unresponsive above.
What is an active lock session?
What is an active lock session?
What is a test lock?
What is a test lock?
- Any user (Keyholder, lockee, or self-locker) can abandon or edit it
- Statistics are not recorded
- Results don’t appear on the leaderboard
Can I change the template of an active lock session?
Can I change the template of an active lock session?
| Lock Type | Can Modify |
|---|---|
| Keyholder lock | Yes (Keyholder only) |
| Test lock | Yes (any authorized user) |
| Self-lock | No |
Can I delete the template of an active lock session?
Can I delete the template of an active lock session?
Features
Can I unlock my Lockbox with Deepthroat Trainer points?
Can I unlock my Lockbox with Deepthroat Trainer points?
- Toggle on Enable Deepthroat Training when setting lock conditions
- Click the gear icon to configure how many minutes are deducted per training XP earned
What is Public Voting?
What is Public Voting?
- Toggle Enable public voting on lock duration in your template settings
- A shareable link appears at Chastity Lockbox > Home under the lock name
- Share the link with others
- Voters can add or subtract a fixed amount from your lock duration
- Configure the time increment by clicking the gear icon next to the setting
- Optional Maximum Lock Duration / Minimum Lock Duration caps limit how far voting can move your session; if you are already at the maximum, increase votes may be unavailable (greyed out on the public page)—see Public Voting
- Users can vote once every 24 hours
- Voters receive 100 XP for participating
How do I earn XP from the Lockbox?
How do I earn XP from the Lockbox?
- Receive votes: Enable public voting on your lock session and share your link. You earn XP when others vote on your session.
- Vote on others: Vote on other users’ public lock sessions to earn XP.
Public Voting Guide
How does lock detection work?
How does lock detection work?
- Physically interfere with the locking paddle
- Forcibly open the back housing
Can the physical emergency fail-safe be disabled?
Can the physical emergency fail-safe be disabled?
| Method | Can be disabled? | How it works |
|---|---|---|
| Software Emergency Unlock | Yes (by keyholder) | Menu option on the device; ends session with 24-hour cooldown |
| Hardware Fail-Safe | No | Physical tab on back housing; requires breaking the housing to access |
Hardware Emergency Unlock Guide
What happens if I use the 'Give Up Control' feature?
What happens if I use the 'Give Up Control' feature?
- Your lock button becomes disabled (greyed out) on the dashboard
- Only your assigned Keyholder can control your device
- You cannot start, stop, or modify lock sessions
- Delayed — You can reclaim control yourself, but there’s a mandatory 72-hour waiting period before control is returned to you
- Permanent — Only your Keyholder can return control to you. You cannot regain control on your own through the dashboard
- Open the account menu in the top-left and switch to your account
- Go to Settings > Advanced
- Turn off Give Up Control using the toggle shown there
Troubleshooting
My Lockbox won't turn on
My Lockbox won't turn on
- Keep the device connected to your computer via USB‑C
- Open the web flasher in Chrome
- Click Connect and select “USB JTAG Serial Debug” from the device list
- Complete the firmware flash (do not check “Erase device” to preserve settings)
- After flashing completes, hold the Enter/Lock button for 10 seconds
Flashing Guide
- Your order number
- What you’ve tried so far
- Whether your computer detects the device when plugged in
My Lockbox freezes and becomes unresponsive
My Lockbox freezes and becomes unresponsive
- Hard reset: Press and hold the Enter/Lock button for 10 seconds. The device will restart automatically.
- Reflash the firmware: If freezing persists after a hard reset, reinstall the firmware using the web flasher.
Flashing Guide
My Lockbox keeps restarting on its own (power cycling)
My Lockbox keeps restarting on its own (power cycling)
Flashing Guide
QR code or pairing code doesn't work — I can't pair my Lockbox
QR code or pairing code doesn't work — I can't pair my Lockbox
- Confirm WiFi — Manual pairing requires the Lockbox to be online. You should see a green WiFi indicator before you pair.
- Use the code currently on screen — The pairing code changes every time the device restarts. Enter or scan the code that is showing now; a code copied earlier or from before a reboot will not work.
- Try automatic pairing — If you can use Google Chrome or Microsoft Edge on a desktop or laptop, go to Settings → Devices → Pair Lockbox, open the Automatic tab, and use Scan for Lockbox instead of manual entry.
- Wait after startup — After power-on or restart, give the device a moment to connect to WiFi before you start the pairing flow on the dashboard.
- WiFi works but pairing still fails — If the Lockbox clearly has Wi‑Fi (green indicator, and your router shows it with an IP) but pairing never completes, the device may need the latest firmware. Leave it online so it can pick up an automatic update on boot, or reinstall the current release with the flashing guide. See WiFi works but pairing won’t complete for the full sequence.
Pairing guide
'Already paired' error but my Lockbox isn't listed on my account
'Already paired' error but my Lockbox isn't listed on my account
- Confirm the right account — Sign in to the dashboard email you normally use. Open Settings → Devices. If your Lockbox is already listed, you don’t need to pair again; open Chastity Lockbox from the home page for that device.
- Hard reboot and resync — Press and hold Enter/Lock for 10 seconds so the device reconnects to Wi‑Fi and syncs. Then try pairing again using the current pairing code from Settings → Pairing on the device (codes change after restart).
- Stale listing — If the Lockbox appears under Settings → Devices but doesn’t work, remove it there and pair again with a fresh pairing code from the device.
- Secondhand / previous owner — If someone else paired this device before you, you need an ownership transfer. See I bought a secondhand Lockbox above.
Connectivity troubleshooting
My lock randomly unlocks or doesn't sync properly
My lock randomly unlocks or doesn't sync properly
Connectivity Troubleshooting
The dashboard shows the wrong lock state (for example Unlocked while the Lockbox is locked), Device Status stuck on Updating, or 'Updating Firmware' never finishes
The dashboard shows the wrong lock state (for example Unlocked while the Lockbox is locked), Device Status stuck on Updating, or 'Updating Firmware' never finishes
- Trust the device when it disagrees with the website—use the online status guide; the dashboard can lag by up to about a minute.
- Re-sync — Perform a hard reboot with resync, then follow Connectivity Troubleshooting if it keeps happening.
- Firmware — If an update appears stuck, leave the device powered and on WiFi so it can finish; if it never clears, reinstall the current release with the web flasher (do not check Erase device if you want to keep settings and pairing).
My keyholder started or changed a lock, but the device only behaved correctly after I restarted
My keyholder started or changed a lock, but the device only behaved correctly after I restarted
Dashboard shows offline but my device shows connected
Dashboard shows offline but my device shows connected
Connectivity Troubleshooting
I see 'Error Fetching Statistics' or a database error on the dashboard
I see 'Error Fetching Statistics' or a database error on the dashboard
LockSession) or that something does not exist—that comes from our servers, not from your Lockbox settings or WiFi. You cannot fix those messages by re-pairing the device or changing options on the Lockbox.The same kind of outage can also cause lock session not created when you try to start a lock, errors at the bottom of the page, or your Lockbox not appearing in the dashboard—even when WiFi on the device looks fine. Those symptoms usually clear up for everyone once the service issue is fixed.What to try:- Refresh the page, or sign out of the dashboard and sign back in.
- Wait a few minutes and open Chastity Lockbox again in case of temporary maintenance.
Why can't I see Emergency Unlock or Take a Break on my Lockbox?
Why can't I see Emergency Unlock or Take a Break on my Lockbox?
- Press the Enter button to open the lock menu
- Scroll to find Take a Break or Emergency Unlock
What if there's an emergency and I need my key immediately?
What if there's an emergency and I need my key immediately?
- On your Lockbox, navigate to Settings > Emergency Unlock
- Follow the on-screen instructions
Why did my Lockbox display the re-lock animation during an active lock session?
Why did my Lockbox display the re-lock animation during an active lock session?
Why does my timer show the wrong duration when I power on?
Why does my timer show the wrong duration when I power on?
- The device stores lock duration locally but needs to sync with the server to display accurate remaining time
- During startup, the device shows a placeholder or cached value while it connects to WiFi and retrieves the correct time
- The display typically corrects itself within 15–30 seconds once WiFi connects
- Your actual lock timer is unaffected—it continues running accurately on the server regardless of what the display shows during startup
Why is my lock button disabled on the dashboard?
Why is my lock button disabled on the dashboard?
Product Details
What filament is used for the colored Lockboxes?
What filament is used for the colored Lockboxes?
| Color | Filament |
|---|---|
| Pink | Voxel PLA Plus Pink |
| Blue | Voxel PLA Plus Sky Blue |
Replacement Parts
How do I order a replacement back cover?
How do I order a replacement back cover?
- Email support@researchanddesire.com requesting a replacement back cover
- Include the email address you used for your original Lockbox purchase
- Our team will send you an invoice for $10 USD plus shipping
Support
Who should I contact for Lockbox support?
Who should I contact for Lockbox support?

